How do I start?? Okay.. this drama made me cry, laugh and fall for this grand love… I guess it was fate that the drama came when I was missing melodramas. I was tired of watching twisted stories. I wanted a classic pure love story. A love story so beautiful like a painting, like a book that you would read over and over again. My Love Eun Dong was that drama.
From the webdramas alone, I was gripped. The PD’s blog, the way he wrote it was so promising. My hopes were high. The teasers that gave tribute to classic movies made me realize this drama is something else. How creative were they to do such teasers and webdramas? We were in good hands, it was a dream team. Everything was so well done. It looks so beautiful.
The casting also was perfect. Joo Jin Mo & Kim Sa Rang, they’re such a pretty pair.. and how can I miss my favorite actor’s drama? Of course, I was in for JJM. It made me love him more. His acting is so great that it pulls you into Hyun Soo’s sad journey of looking for his long lost love. And of course, drooling over JJM’s gaze and all that “top actor” glamour. Kim Sa Rang is so beautiful, probably JJM’s prettiest leading lady to date. I wasn’t sure of her acting skills but as the drama progressed, she proved that she could be a great leading actress. She became Eun Dong.

How can I forget, Junior? He was a huge reason why I continued to watch this drama. He was perfect. The first time I cried in the drama was when he was crying when Eun Dong left. He was a real actor because he moved me. His portrayal was so good, that his every movement, every scene, feels so real. He was authentic. He’s so handsome, the perfect young Hyun Soo. So pure and innocent. Junior gained a fan in me. He didn’t look awkward at all with Lee Ja-In, who is the perfect Eun Dong. The girl was so pretty, fragile and innocent.

Even the 20s, they perfectly showed the grown up romance part, Baek Sung Hyun & Yoon So Hee looked so good together. And they threw themselves into the role, they made us feel giddy and in love. The younger roles flow so perfectly into the older ones. The casting was really well done and for that I applaud them.

My Love Eun Dong’s plot offers nothing new but a pure love story. The amnesia plot is such a cliche’. It’s been used a thousand times already. The difference is the lead being an actor and the autobiography part. When I knew they’re using the amnesia plot, I was hesistant, I thought it would be predictable since such plot is so overused. But the execution in the drama is so good that you forget that. Screw the amnesia, I was in for the beauty of it.
It’s a drama that is oldschool yet new and refreshing in these modern times. I’m not saying My Love Eun Dong’s concept is old but, it reminds us of the past dramas like Autumn In My Heart, Stairway To Heaven, those pure love stories. But what sets it apart from those dramas, is that My Love Eun Dong is not depressing and is not overly-dramatic. It doesn’t try hard to induce tears, you cry unexpectedly. It is just the right amount of melodrama and funny moments which are never awkward. It makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside. It makes you feel nostalgic. If anyone needs his/her melodrama fix, this is the perfect one. Honestly, My Love Eun Dong arrived at the right time, I needed my own melodrama fix and it came to me. Fate, indeed.

I was so drawn to the love story. I wanted them to be together. How can you not feel for Hyun Soo? His love is so inspiring. I guess people should watch it, just so they would learn to love like Hyun Soo. To learn how to love just one person your entire life, to wait for the perfect time, and to be deeply moved by a woman unlike any other in the world. This is what the drama is about. Til the end, Hyun Soo wanted to protect Eun Dong. It was unbelievable, it was a love so deep. Eun Dong is so deeply engraved in his heart, that nothing, nobody would stop him from loving her. It was Hyun Soo that kept my sanity and made me finish the drama. JJM’s portrayal is so real, so convincing that he lives the character, like he always does. I really don’t know why his acting is like that, maybe he could relate in real life? Probably. He did it again, this powerful acting, that made me such a huge fan of him in Empress Ki. I never looked back since then, I found my favorite Korean actor.
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So much has been said about the ending. The last episodes were so unlike the first 14 episodes. I didn’t like the finale as well. There were so many things left unsaid, unresolved. First, I cringed when Hyun Soo & Eun Dong were mistreated when they ate at a restaurant. Really? The waitress having a tantrum? Someone poured water over Eun Dong, what’s with this hate? Does this happen in real life? No! No matter how famous you are, these are such petty reactions, it’s unbelievable. I don’t know if that’s the Korean culture, to treat celebs like that. It’s so juvenile and shallow and unreal. It doesn’t work like that in real life.
Andddd.. the bad ones didn’t get punished. Ra Il didn’t call Hyun Soo his dad. Jae Ho remained a dad to him and spent time with him, despite the fact that he stole 10 years of Eun Dong’s life. Maybe, the writer wanted to show that the drama is not about revenge, it was about forgiveness. So much so that Jae Ho was given a chance to be Ra Il’s dad, that Hyun Soo didn’t get a chance to be one. He was Ra Il’s dad for 16 episodes, when did Hyun Soo become his dad? Not a single episode. It felt unfair for Hyun Soo. The writer dragged Ra Il’s plot. She could’ve revealed the truth sooner so at least Hyun Soo & Ra Il had father & son moments. And so that Hyun Soo & Eun Dong could explain things to the child. Jae Ho was Ra Il’s dad the entire drama. She was so generous to Jae Ho that she forgot to give time for the real father. Some scenes could’ve been shorter like the 5-minute flashback. Did she forget that it’s only 16 episodes?
I also thought that Eun Dong would meet Hyun Soo’s parents when she recovers her memory. If you remember the scene in the clothing store they were fascinated by her as if they’ve known her before..I thought they would meet her again in the end. What about Eun Dong’s foster parents? I thought they would confess everything and apologize to her in the end. The writer could’ve given scenes for those and shortened the 5-minute flashbacks.
The writer spent so much time redeeming Jae Ho’s character, that she overlooked the things he’s done. She forgot how Hyun Soo suffered in those 10 years. She forgot that Eun Dong was fooled into thinking she loved her fake husband. Eun Dong was like an unknowing slave that washed the feet of the person who almost killed her, and her son. Hyun Soo waited for 10 years, he didn’t know he had a son. He thought about Eun Dong, if she was living well.. he lived through those 10 years, thinking they would meet again and they would be together. He didn’t know that Eun Dong was living in hell, serving this fake husband of hers. The writer forgot that.
She didn’t remember all the sufferings Jae Ho caused Hyun Soo & Eun Dong. She wrote Eun Dong’s character as a brave woman but what happened in the end? I thought Eun Dong will bring everything in their proper places? She even changed the ending of Nello & Patrasche, which made me think that she would change her fate with Hyun Soo. But the writer made her lose her resolve, she made Hyun Soo and Eun Dong carry the blame and guilt. What’s this noble idiocy? Did the writer lose her mind? Did she fall in love with Jae Ho’s character? She made him cripple to begin with, isn’t it enough to make him a pitiful and conflicted character? But how about our main leads here? Don’t they deserve a family? Hyun Soo waited for freaking 10 years for this kind of ending. I was looking forward for a reunited family, but there was none. Okay, you would say it was a realistic and practical ending. But if the child knew that Jae Ho, the dad he grew up with, kidnapped his mom and he was fake, I bet he would want to be with his real father, though not that fast, but he would not hate him. He is 10 years old, he’s no baby. And why would he listen to Jae Ho on how he would treat his real dad? What right does he have to dictate that to Ra Il? It should be the other way around, Hyun Soo telling Ra Il to forgive his fake dad. I won’t even want to mention Seo Ryeong who was a boring and one-dimensional villain. She was like a wallflower till the end, still desperate for Hyun Soo’s love. How stupid was she? And how about the foster dad? He also got away from his wrongdoings and practically disappeared. Hyun Soo’s dad saying give up Ra Il for Jae Ho? Is he really Hyun Soo’s dad? How could he not understand his own son? Does the writer really know a thing about family?
We all wanted a happy ending, the writer gave us that. She wanted to give us a happy ending. She tried hard with all her resources, with all the time she was given. We were supposed to be happy, right? But it’s not enough to have a happy ending just for the sake of it. You don’t provide us a happy ending and forget about everything else. A good drama, for me, is when you have closure for everything else. You address the lingering issues outright. You don’t neglect them, you don’t shortchange them. You give the lead characters what they deserve, and put the villains where they deserve. That’s where the moral lesson is shown. That good triumphs over evil, however which way, no matter what storyline. That is how you end it. We don’t want to imagine it, we want to see them unfold. The ending is the most important part because, the ending is what people will remember. Not the beginning, not the middle. A great drama ends well, and it’s such a shame that they didn’t give it to us.
I guess nothing is perfect… My Love Eun Dong would’ve been perfect, except the last two episodes. It felt like written by a different person. The writer lost it with the suicide thing. She didn’t know what to do afterwards. So you just commit suicide to erase all your wrongdoings? Say sorry and that’s it? Suicide is not an excuse to getaway from everything. You don’t correct a mistake by another mistake. How is it a good message to the viewers? In a country with a high suicide rate like Korea? It ruined this beautiful drama, it made it depressing in the end. Suicide is such a heavy topic, that you don’t put this in a beautiful drama like this. She tarnished this drama with that. It’s like she put blood in this beautiful painting.
She didn’t know how to tie the loose ends on that part. She succeeded in the amnesia plot and Hyun Soo looking for Eun Dong. It was fantastic, one of the best I’ve seen. But she didn’t know how to address the issue about Jae Ho & Ra Il. I know the drama is not about revenge. Of course, we all have to forgive despite all the wrong things others do to us. But in real life, I don’t think their response would be like that. Sorry is not enough. He won’t getaway like that easily, also the foster dad. Jae Ho’s suicide is not his excuse for what he’s done. It doesn’t work like that in real life. Hyun Soo & Eun Dong were gracious enough to forgive and forget everything he’s done. Jae Ho is one lucky guy. Lol. I was waiting for Eun Dong to put everything back to their places, I wish she included Ra Il, being put back into his father’s arms. We deserve another episode for that. The writer obviously ran out of time. If the drama had 20 episodes it would’ve been better. This drama would’ve been perfect. It was so great to begin with.
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I wasn’t expecting the wedding scene anymore but I wish there was more than this pinky promise. These are two people who love each other so deep that it stood the test of time. Yeah, I know, it’s an ode to their promise when they were young, but still they could’ve done more than this. They’ve been through so much after all. A hug from someone you missed won’t hurt.

Okay we had a happy ending…I know I must be happy with that.. I guess I should be contented with that… They need not end with a bang, but Ra Il, their son is missing.. Hyun Soo didn’t get the chance to be a dad when Jae Ho had all the time to be a dad to Ra Il.
I guess, I will just remember My Love Eun Dong as a beautiful love story. I will try to forget the last two episodes and cherish the moments of Hyun Soo and Eun Dong together. A love that stood the test of time, a love that endures. This is how I want to remember this drama. How Hyun Soo and Eun Dong’s love survived all of this. Even though it didn’t include Ra Il, I will just pretend he would learn to love his real dad when he grows up, and he will understand everything. I will live by that. Though seeing is so much better than imagining. Let’s just pretend it all happened.
I will live by the fact that Hyun Soo & Eun Dong’s love survived everything. That their love is unlike any other. That their love survived all these separations, all these trials. This is probably where the drama succeeded, despite the ending. Hyun Soo & Eun Dong can now love each other forever, for they have let go of their past. They have lost a decade of their lives together, now they will make up for that lost time.
They have a long road ahead of them. And they will go through that long road together. A long road ahead, it could mean a new beginning of their journey, of their life together.

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My Love Eun Dong for me is a masterpiece. I still think of it that way, despite the ending. For the most part, the drama has been great. It was written so well and so artfully done. It’s an oldschool type of drama, though in a modern setting. A love story that takes us back to the old times, of the classic stories that we loved and touched our hearts. It is so carefully done, that every detail, every scene flows so well with the story. Every scene seems like a beautiful painting. It’s indeed a classic love story. Something that we don’t usually see nowadays. Stories like this, they are never forgotten. They remain in the hearts of the viewers who were so drawn into the drama. Hyun Soo & Eun Dong made us all believe in their true love and how they fought for it against all odds. It makes us wish that a love like that could exist in real life. It may seem so impossible that someone could love like that, but then it’s what makes it so beautiful and inspiring.
